My Dustination!

I have learned this throughout several recent events. My goal in sharing this is to help you get rid of the excess baggage in your life, or useless friends. Don’t lie you have them! The only reason why they are still there is because you consider yourself to be too nice to just drop them like its hot. So you can choose to do what I have done. Basically you are going to to what you wanted to do, but didn’t have the nerve to, but with a sort of… drunken finesse!

Family Events:
We are all generally invited to some sort of extended family event that we wish would not come annually. You know, the one where aunt Selma is going to wonder why such an attractive person like yourself is still single, childless, jobless, useless, still living at home… etc etc.. Unless by chance you actually like your family. If that is the case please do feel free to leave a comment with the exact medications you are taking so that we too can like ours.
– When family gets together generally it involves a large number of relatives. There always seems to be just enough relatives to cause chaos with parking. So with that said you definitely want to an early arrival just this once and since it will more than likely be the last invite it will be worth it. Get one of those spots where you will end up pretty much boxed in, preferably facing an alternative exit, such as yard, field, or garden. As the night goes on and you notice the first of the guests to start making a break. That’s your queue. You no doubt have had several drinks to get through the event, so your right where you need to be on the “balls” meter. Say your fair wells and make yourself heard by all you didn’t come this far to pussy out now! Once you are confident that a vast majority of the family, especially your gracious hosts, are aware of your parting, get in the car. Take a deep breath and smile because you are now making your exit. Check your surroundings make sure there are no random people standing in your way. After all you don’t wanted to be invited back but you don’t want the reason to be your incarceration. Once your path is clear, FLOOR IT! Take out the grass, garden, and rosebush! You want to make it a point to tear your way through any and all landscaping to get around the congested parking lot of relatives vehicles. Now that you are approaching your safe haven, the road, you wanna slow down look both ways and head on home. However before you exit onto the main street take a brief moment to check your rear view mirror. If you did this correctly you should see your tracks leading through quite a bit of topiary, as well as dirt or mud kicked up onto the vehicles that you parked by, BUT your definitely will see the stares from the entire clan of family. Luckily God was gracious enough to invent caller ID, so just avoid some calls speak to who you must its probably going to be nerve wracking BUT you definitely insured your lack of invitation to another event.

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I want you to want me!

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I want you to want me.

A simple concept, a concept that is far from simple in actuality. So many people are deeply seeking that true connection, that amazing love story to be swept away in. Is it going to happen? Are we consistently led to believe that there is a chance that our knight in shining armor is on his/her way? That some beautiful spirit will come into our life without a warning, truly falling for us, and accepting us for who we are; flaws and all? Is it that we are programmed to be set up for failure, or is it a coping mechanism? Are we using this fictitious concept that has made so many great epic love stories as an excuse to sit around and wait for what we want to come to us, while we do nothing? So many questions round and round we go. Are we going to wait, or should we be the knight in shining armor ourselves? Should we be the one who initiates these chances of fate?

Well from what I see, the majority of people out there choose not to be the one courting others for the small simple fact of fear. Fear is a strong enabler and equally, more often, disabler. Fear of rejection is plaguing those out there who are praying for their chances in an epic love story but, are too afraid of rejection to partake in it. So what do we do? Patiently wait for what we want to come to us, or get out of our comfort zone and reach for what we want? Unfortunately it is not something I can answer for you. It is something you have to decide for yourself, but I can tell you that you may just be surprised should you take the time and risks to reach for what you want. After all another major concept out there is You are the only thing standing in your way.

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Read more | Comments (2) | October 7th, 2009

Home of the free

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Home of the Free, Land of the Brave…..

We know how lucky we are to live in our fine country, we know that we are not under some belligerent communizm of sorts. We know that if we study hard enough in high school that we litterally can become what ever we dream of. . . . exept equal.

Try as we might, might as we try there is one thing about this country I still dont understand. The country that knocked so many walls down, still continues to rebuild them, they rename them but never the less rebuild them…

Freedom:: We will not tell you, who to love. That would be to much like a dictator, but what we will do is give you limits of the love you can share. So you love but only to the limits of our freedom.

Bravery:: We will be brave, and go into flame soaked buildings for your pet. But do not ask us to except you, See our bravery is only mirroring the image of our government, and society. Our bravery only knows the limits of our freedom.

When you limit rights, freedom, and bravery, just how brave, and free can this country be.

Equality is coming, but freedom has arrived?

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Perception is reality/truth.

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some one said to me “perception is truth”….

Yes, some genius out there said this, and what some one inturpreted this to mean is ( in my own terminology ) it dosnt matter what the fuck i say or how the fuck i say it, but how you take it ????

Now see, this bothers me this fucking will cause me to lose sleep. I am not the type of person to censor my words. I dont like people to take what I say to literal because I usally will not mean to be hurtful/ mean/ arrogant..etc etc.. even if you persieve it to be so. Im not going to lie to you, if you ask me if you look like shit you better want the truth because your asking me and as your friend I am telling you the truth to the question you asked, just ask any of my friends. So for someone to tell me that perception is truth, NO.

Perception is not the truth in my world if i call you a dumb cunt 9 out of 10 times i will not mean it, it will be my own form of word vomit I say things impulsively to the people I am comfortable with. Now for you to tell me that I cannot do so is telling me that i cannot be comfortable around you and I have to censor my words thus causeing me to think about every single thing I say to you including my opinion when asked for. Soooo.. with that said if i have to make myself a walking over analitical lunatic do you realy think that I am going to willingly put myself in a position to be around you? The answer is No. If you are around me by choice then you will understand me and accept me for the things I do and the things I say, so basicaly if your perception is truth, and your percieve me to be too fucking blunt for you then find someone else to listen to, and find some one who will lie to you when you ask how your hair cut looks like because im not your guy!!!

I just cant stand people who always wanna change you dont they realize that you dont change people if you like them you accept them if you dont .. then you dont, and find someone who better fits your overly needy requirments. Until then dont talk to me because you will continue to hear my truth no matter what you percieve that to be!

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The downside of determination!

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THE DOWNSIDE OF DETERMINATION

When you find, yourself involved with one person. One person who you have strived to be with and worked so hard to have, and given up so much to keep. What happens when your efforts go unoticed, and leave you drained. What will come of the situation, when you gave up everthing you had for that one person and compromised everthing you had to the point that all you did have was what you were working so hard for. You are content, for only a moment because content is not something that one who constantly strives for better feels often.

Through your constant internal conflict, to get what you were working so hard for, you never notice that you are the ONLY one who is working and compromising everything. One will realize this when they, finaly have what they worked so hard for, and it is taken away, despite you BEST efforts.

At that point, where does one start over, with nothing.

NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR BEST INTERESTS FOR ANOTHER, UNLESS YOU KNOW THEY ARE PREPARED TO DO THE SAME!

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My first post! Dustin!

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Hello World!

My Name is Dustin, and I am going to start sharing my thoughts.

So someone had hurt me in the past,.

and with that, they told me. that they are not going to beg for my appology, because if they were going to be sorry, they wouldnt have done it .

now they were telling me that . this was a stupid thing and they didnt mean to do it.. yet instead of following it up with an appology , even just to appease the person. that was hurt there response was..

IM NOT GOIN TO SIT HERE AND SAY IM SORRY, BECAUSE IF I WAS GOING TO BE SORRY I WOULDNT HAVE DONE IT..

now in my world .. if you dont do something intentionally, and it was a mistake and you wish that it didnt happen, then you pretty much.. say your sorry.

HOWEVER, i guess everyone else isnt in my world.

Read more | Comments (1) | October 7th, 2009